I met this guy on Facebook but it turns out to be a guy I knew and sort of dated in Middle School. (over 20 years ago!!) He lives in Oregon now, has two kids, is rather newly divorced and after a week of texts, wants to come back to Atlanta for a week in January to rekindle our "romance."
Am I crazy, or is this a bit of rush job? He seems very nice, he likes to talk about sex quite a bit, plays in a band, but apparently had a hard time keeping his job and smokes a good bit of pot. Nothing wrong with any or that. But what on earth does he hope to gain by coming to Atlanta? He's already talking about marriage and soul-mates and karma. Ugh.
How do I continuously get involved in this kind of thing? I don't know how to tell him not to come. He said he ordered the plane tickets the day he asked me if I was going to be in town toward the end of January (who knew it was a loaded question?) and now I can't really tell him not to come because he has family here and it would sound stupid. But he wants to take me to dinner and then out for some mind blowing sex afterwards, and even thought I TOLD him I'm not interested in sex, he seems to think he'll be the one to change my mind.
Men.
I get weird vibes from anyone who would rush out and buy plane tickets and plan out his future--over Facebook. Rather scary.
Posted by: Margaret | Monday, 22 December 2008 at 06:10 PM
I agree with Margaret.
Posted by: cassee01 | Wednesday, 07 January 2009 at 02:16 PM